
What brings you here?
Is there something pressing on your mind?
A question that preoccupies you...
A challenge that is holding you back...
A difficult decision…
Something else you can’t name, causing stress or distress…
What challenges are you facing?
Using a mix of counseling, coaching, and inner work I’ll create a space for you to navigate life questions and challenges.
What others others have used the space for:
“I feel purposeless.”
“My job feels unfulfilling, but I can’t leave.”
“My children aren’t speaking to me
“A recent journey is making me question everything about my life.”
“Should I stay in this relationship?”
“Why have I been feeling an overwhelming sense of ennui?”
“I am dissatisfied with my friendships.”
Is there something you want to explore?

Let’s talk
I’m currently taking referrals only, but if you’d like to work together in the future, feel free to reach out and let me know.
My rate is $100/ hour, all of which goes towards a charity of your choice. We’ll see what makes sense, a one-off session or multiple.
Get started by emailing me directly at iamdlai@gmail.com with your name, who referred you, and what brings you here; or by sending me a message using this form:

About me
My interest is in helping people lead meaningful, purposeful, actualized lives. I enjoy supporting people motivated by self-reflection, self-understanding, and self-actualization, who are curious and OK with discomfort.
I’m currently a therapist-in-training, working towards clinical mental health licensure. My day job is leading a pro-democracy nonprofit and supporting private sector professionals, particularly those from tech, contribute to the public interest space. In a past life, I worked in big tech on early-stage product policy and go-to-market. I’ve lived itinerantly since 2017, mostly in northern Europe.